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Healthy Relationships

Understanding Teen Dating Violence

Teen dating violence is more common than many people realize. It includes any behavior within a dating relationship that is used to gain power or control over another person. This can happen in person or through technology.

Types of Teen Dating Violence

Teen dating violence is not just physical. It can include:

Emotional/Verbal Abuse

  • Name-calling, insults, or put-downs
  • Controlling behavior (who they talk to, what they wear)
  • Threats or intimidation

Physical Abuse

  • Hitting, pushing, or any form of physical harm

Digital Abuse

  • Excessive texting or monitoring
  • Demanding passwords
  • Using social media to threaten or embarrass

Sexual Abuse

  • Pressuring or forcing someone into unwanted physical contact

Warning Signs for Parents

Your child may be experiencing dating violence if you notice:

  • Sudden changes in mood or behavior
  • Withdrawing from friends or family
  • Excessive checking of their phone or fear of missing messages
  • Unexplained injuries
  • A partner who is overly controlling or jealous

How Parents Can Help

  • Keep communication open
    Talk regularly about healthy relationships and respect.
  • Teach boundaries and consent
    Help your child understand what is and is not acceptable in a relationship.
  • Stay calm and supportive
    If your child shares concerns, listen without judgment.
  • Encourage healthy relationships
    Model respect and positive communication at home.

What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?

Help your child recognize healthy relationships, which include:

  • Mutual respect
  • Trust and honesty
  • Open communication
  • Independence and personal space

What Should I Do If I’m Concerned?

If you believe your child may be in an unhealthy or unsafe relationship:

  • Talk with your child privately and calmly
  • Reach out to your school counselor for support
  • Seek additional help if safety is a concern

Resources & Support

School counselors are available to support students and families and can help connect you with additional resources.